Ok, there are a couple of things that I find very weird right now. One is that the past two times I have gone on a walk with Skyeler, some crazy guy will either say OH YEAH!! as he passes or at least look back to check me out. Interestingly enough both times I was holding Skys hand as we walked. Why do guys check girls out when they know they are with someone since they are HOLDING HANDS!
Another thing I find weird and interesting is that one of my ex-bf little sister, will usually email me or chat with me, wanting to hang out. The conversation usually is the same. She starts the conversation and I ask her how she is doing. She will then say she misses me and we should hang out. I'll usually say "Its been a while" (Like hmmm.... 4 yrs). Afterwords she will say that I was her favorite gf that _____ had and then I'll ask her "what about _____ wife? how do you like her". She says she is ok but likes me better. That her sis-in-law gets on her nerves. Then the conversation usually turns to school and things like that. OOh and this time I did get an invite to WX High's school musical. This yr it is Les Mes. and they are performing in Feb. I got the dates and everything. I guess I mainly find this weird because hmm.... usually you don't talk to or invite your bro's ex gf to family events when both individuals are married!! Anyway If it wasn't so weird I'd be glad to talk to them more because they really are amazing people but I just can't get around the weirdness.
Funny thing is this isn't even the start of it. For one I still once in a while talk to a different ex-bf that I dated for 2 yrs and Sky and I took him to the Manti pageant once. But a totally different weird thing is when a different ex-bf from the ones mentioned previously kept trying to win me back even though I'M MARRIED (he knew it to) by bringing up things that happened while hanging out and telling me his feelings for me that he hasn't been able to get over me still, texting me daily. Usually starting around 8 am and it was usually hello beautiful or good morning gorgeous. Then he sent me a pic of him half naked. IT was from the waist up. but still INAPPROPRIATE! After that pic I told him not to contact me anymore. So far so good. So what is it with some people trying to hook up or look at married individuals.
In no way am I trying to make myself feel good about all this. But it was just weird because as of TONIGHT (technically last night since it is 1:30 am and my date will be off) I got the check out from random passerby and and ex-bf sister wanting to hang out. Then it was only 2 weeks ago that some other random guy called out from a yellow car as Sky and I were walking.
Please tell me you guys have had this happen to you.